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Sue Johanson Worries About Rough Anal Sex

TGIF and for a good Friday laugh you gotta check out this video from Canada's most famous sexual educator, Sue Johanson.

Not too long ago a reader shared her first anal sex experience then we asked the ladies to share their first anal sex experiences and their stories are worth the read. If you haven't read it, you must!

And in case you've been considering to giving it up we have the 411 on backdoor filled with tips to follow to make your first anal sex experience is enjoyable and not so painful.

In case you've ever wondered, "Hmm, how rough can I take some of that boom boom pow?" Well, Sue worries about it. And who doesn't listen to Sue when it comes to sex?

P.S. If you're into rough anal sex, girl I gotta talk to you. Seriously? You're brave and freakier than us here at the Powder Room ;)

Confession: I'm married with children and I'm having an affair

I'm a 40 year old woman married for the last 21 years of my life with two great kids and a good husband. My husband and I are not rich but we own a home and live comfortably.  Two years ago I met another man. I love my husband, he's  a good man but he also does have his issues and I wish he'd spent more time with me and the kids instead of sitting on the couch watching sports all the time. Well, this is where the other man comes into place.

Sexsomnia: Imagine Engaging in Sex While You Sleep

Imagine waking up one morning and noticing that your underwear is off even though you remember going to bed with them on. Or imagine having your partner surprise you one morning by telling you that you had sex with him the night before. But you don't remember having sex.

For some women this is a scary sleep disorder known as sexsomnia- engaging in sexual acts such as masturbation and sexual intercourse while they are asleep. Often this disorder goes undiagnosed since most sufferers are ashamed and embarrassed to share their condition or they simply are unaware of their sleep behaviors. It is often the partner of a sexsomniac who shares their awkward sleep experience. At time of discovery, the sexsomniac undergoes sleep studies medically known as polysomnography to confirm if they are indeed asleep while they perform sexual acts.

Four Sexual Turn Offs For Women

Not too long ago ladies shared their top sexual turn offs and now ladies are sharing in the powder room that there are other bedroom dealbreakers men seem to constantly make. Dude, are you making one of these mistakes?

He Switched Positions Every Minute

First time sex is all about finding out what the other person likes and also expressing our own desires. I know, sometimes this gets lost between the sheets and we find ourselves playing musical chairs with sex. Some women prefer to be on top cause they control the speed while others prefer doggy style because it produces more contact to their G-spot. We understand that the same goes for men but please don't have us like a pretzel one minute and then switch on us every minute cause you're trying to find what sets you off. There's no greater turn off than getting into sex and suddenly having your partner stop and switch positions. Yeah, there goes the orgasm bye bye!

Girl on Top: Four Reasons Why It's The Best Sex

 
 

Ask any man out there and most will say their favorite sex position is girl on top. Why? Not only are you dominating your guy in the bedroom but you're also allowing him to sit back and enjoy the view. What's best? You're taking full charge of your sexual pleasure. Girl on top is the best sexual position for us and here's why!

REASON #1

You're in Control

The best thing about saddling your guy is that you have complete control of the sex including your most desired back arching orgasm. Usually men take control during sex and a lot of pressure is on them to make sure we're enjoying their grinding and ultimately orgasm. When you're on top, the only thing he has to do is enjoy the ride and the view. Hello boobs!

Wanna tease? Wear a sexy lace bra and only expose a small part of your nipples- he'll be dying to rip your bra off and get a mouthful of your breasts. If your guy is too big you can go in and out at your pace rather than have him enter you deep. If he's small you can sit on him and grind and eventually the thrusting will hit your spot and set your rocket off. The best thing about being on top is that you control how deep he enters you.

The Reasons Why Men Fake Orgasms

When it comes to unsatisfying or simply just-not-in-the-mood sex, even men fake the big O! I know we ladies seem to think men always finish with a bang- even when they're putting their pipis inside rubber vags, but hey, just like us, sometimes they fake it. The top reasons?

About to Lose His Erection

The loss of an erection is an ego killer for men so when he feels his friend is going nighty-night he immediately fakes the orgasm.

Tank is Low

Maybe he already had sex before you- no worries, we're talking about his hand. When a man already had his orgasm his chances of having another O are very small. If he does, don't be surprised if he produces an eye drop of load.

10 Reasons Sexting Is Better Than Sex?

One of the writers over at The Frisky shares with the other ladies why she thinks sexting is sometimes better than actual sex? Do you agree?

1.You have to use your imagination. And girl, you just don’t know what dirty things he’s really thinking until you have sexy times from afar.

2.You get to explore every aspect of a fantasy. It’s like getting bonus time for foreplay.

3.It doesn’t increase your sex partner “number.”

Ladies Share Odd Shaped Penis Stories

We recently add the ladies to share their odd shaped penis stories and we got a lot of action over at Shine from stories micropenises to square ones that barely fit inside to huge inflated mushroom-like heads that made a girl literally run for the door! These are the stories you ladies have shared with us!

Micropenis. Yes these men are entitled to love and be loved like every other human being....and to enjoy themselves sexually of course....BUT DO NOT SPRING MICROPENIS ON A GIRL WHO HAS MADE IT CLEAR THAT THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP POTENTIAL. Save the micropenis for a woman who is serious about her feelings for you!! Thank God I had also made it clear before clothes came off that there would be no intercourse and I wasn't sure how far I was willing to go, period. Wiki micropenis....it was that bad. I was in shock. So much for some casual fun!!!! - Ashlea

A Factual Truth: Men Lie About Their Number of Sex Partners

 

It's no lie that when it comes to the number of sex partners a handful of women go through an immediate and quick "amnesia" and we forget oh one or two men. Well, there's such a thing as "we don't count those few mins. as sex" for women. If it was atrocious sex, some women will not ever recognize it as sex. Ever. Men on the other hand, well their numbers are more "big fish" lies and now thanks to our hard earned tax dollars we have proof!

Every year the Census Bureau comes out their Stat Abstract, and their 2010 edition proves that indeed, men tell "big fish" stories about their sexual track record. Among men aged 15-44 the average "real" number of women they've knocked boots in their lifetime is 5.4 but about 22.6% of men say they've had over 15 partners.

Honestly, I think we ladies are not surprised by this stat. There's a plethora of men out there who brag that their penis has seen more vaginas than a veteran gynecologist. We can now call bullshit on that.

You know, there is a such a thing as male whore. Just sayin'. [Washington Post]

Female's Top 10 Sex Fantasies

   AskMen.com came up with our top 10 sexual fantasies. While I agree with a few of them the rape one doesn't seem to be something I'll fantasize about and quite frankly, I think a few women will agree with me. Being manhandled or having rough sex? Sure, but rape? I don't think so. I'll let you ladies read the list and share if these are indeed our top sex fantasies.

Being A Private Dancer 

Most women wouldn’t have the nerve to strip in a public setting, but this top 10 female sex fantasy definitely involves taking it all off. She loves the idea of tantalizing you with a striptease, and she’d love to give you a private lap dance. Why? Your enjoyment tells her you find her attractive, and your erection tells her she has control -- a potent combination that women simply can’t get enough of.